How I stopped comparing my appearance to my identical twin’s – and healed our relationship | Lara Rodwell

“Why are you fat, and why is she thin,” a puzzled middle-aged man asked, as my identical twin Katy and I strolled into a restaurant in central Mumbai for a post-yoga samosa. It wasn’t the first time we had been asked this question – but each time it hurt just as much, and stoked a decades-long resentment towards my sister, who was always being told she was better looking than me.

As children, we had relished in our identicalness and were joined at the hip. Physically, the only way people (even my parents)...

'We were best friends — until we went on holiday together'

Before going travelling together, Sophie* and Poppy* were best friends. The pair knew everything that was going on with the other, and would voice note daily.

But a once-in-a-lifetime trip to Vietnam changed all that, and the pair haven’t spoken since. ‘I haven’t really thought about reaching out to her,’ says Sophie.

When you picture jet-setting halfway across the world with your bestie, road-trips to the beach, wild adventures and cocktails at sunset in the foreign heat spring to mind.

And,

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I knew my life would never be the same after my Dad died during the pandemic – and boy did he know it too.

In March 2020, whilst others were dancing along to Joe Wick’s workouts and organising book clubs over Zoom, I was coming to terms with my Dad receiving a six-month prognosis. A global lockdown seemed trivial compared to the turmoil I was facing and, if anything, it inspired me to craft the en

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From self-consciousness to eating disorders, twins speak out about how unsolicited comments about physical appearance is toxic when it comes to their mental health

At the age of eleven years old, US-based identical twins and co-founders of Two Scoops of Style, Sarah and Leah Brzyski, were peer-pressured into sitting on either end of a “teeter-totter” (or a “seesaw”). Their friends wanted to see who would fall to the ground first – a form of harmless playground entertainment.

“I felt so humilia

"The goal of 'perfect digestion' dominated my entire life"

Dietician Imogen Wolsey describes how her obsession with gut health took the fun out of her twenties.

Sinking into a plush armchair tucked away in the corner of Le Pain Quotidien, 29-year-old Imogen Wolsey gifts herself a moment of rest. Amongst the hustling commuters she devours a generous mouthful of carrot cake before wiping the foamy lip of velvety cappuccino off her face.

A few years ago, it would have been impossible for Imogen to indulge in something as trivial as a piece of cake.

For

My partner wants to start an OnlyFans – how should I feel?

Masika, 23, has been creating content on OnlyFans for almost three years now, after she set up an account during the pandemic to subsidise her living costs. “I live with my mum and, when COVID hit, I wanted to be able to help her with rent,” she says.

Launched in 2016, the subscription-based content-sharing platform experienced a spike from 70,000 creators in 2019 to 1.5 million in 2022 . The platform is particularly popular among sex workers, with 70 per cent of all content deemed NSFW . It’s

From Isolation to Connection: London’s first Yurt Café radiates hope

However, this café is far from your average Pret a Manger. One lady just approached a work colleague from the other side of The Yurt, never having met him before. She recognised his brand of company laptop. They spent the next hour chatting about the awkwardness of remote-working, and laughing about the fact they’ve never crossed paths. Enough said.

Dotted with wooden tables, abstract artwork and hanging plants, The Yurt Café — located in St Katharine’s Precinct, Limehouse facilitates everyone

My Book

After my dad died in September 2020, I wrote and published a Guided Grief Journal called From Prognosis to Peace: Navigating Grief Through Gratitude, Discovery and Healing (available on Amazon.co.uk), inspired by the letters, poems and notes my dad and I exchanged with eachother in the six months before he died.