How to deal with low body image when you’re pregnant
Pregnancy is often framed as a time when women are expected to feel confident and connected to their bodies - but the reality is often far more complex.
For many, the physical changes that come with pregnancy can feel disorienting, even alien. Body image struggles don’t disappear simply because those changes are socially accepted; in some cases, they intensify. Research suggests that over 40% of women report feeling more negatively about their bodies after pregnancy, highlighting just how common - and under-discussed - this experience is.
Part of the difficulty lies in the loss of control. Pregnancy brings rapid, unavoidable changes to the body, often clashing with long-held ideas about appearance and identity. At the same time, social expectations remain - to “bounce back”, to look a certain way, or to embrace every stage unconditionally.
This creates a tension: a body that is doing something extraordinary, while also feeling unfamiliar or difficult to inhabit. It’s a reminder that body image isn’t just about how we look - it’s about how we experience ourselves.
For many, the physical changes that come with pregnancy can feel disorienting, even alien. Body image struggles don’t disappear simply because those changes are socially accepted; in some cases, they intensify. Research suggests that over 40% of women report feeling more negatively about their bodies after pregnancy, highlighting just how common - and under-discussed - this experience is.
Part of the difficulty lies in the loss of control. Pregnancy brings rapid, unavoidable changes to the body, often clashing with long-held ideas about appearance and identity. At the same time, social expectations remain - to “bounce back”, to look a certain way, or to embrace every stage unconditionally.
This creates a tension: a body that is doing something extraordinary, while also feeling unfamiliar or difficult to inhabit. It’s a reminder that body image isn’t just about how we look - it’s about how we experience ourselves.